How to stop dog licking

How to stop dog licking

It’s always nice to be greeted at the door with a wagging tail and kiss after your long absence from the house. Even if you haven’t left the house in a week, dogs always seem to be ready with a kiss or two for their favorite person. Unfortunately, some dogs can take it a bit too far.

One or two licks on the face are no big deal, but when they start to go to town it can be annoying, unhygienic, and downright gross. If you have allergies to canine saliva, it can put a damper on the friendship, as well.

So, how do you stop your pet from doing something that seems so natural to them? We have outlined nine easy steps to take you from slobber to serenity-where your dog kisses are concerned anyway!

Why Dogs Lick in the First Place

Before you can solve the problem of too many wet kisses, it’s important to understand why dogs lick in the first place. There are actually several reasons why they do so, and even a few more reasons why your furball may be going overboard.

First, licking is taught to them as a sign of affection at a young age by their mothers. Female dogs lick their newborn pups to get them breathing. They continue to do so to show love, affection, and to clean themselves and young. Your dog does likewise to you to show how much they love you.

Besides that most basic instinct, dogs can also lick for many other reasons. For example, they may do so because you taste good. They may be bored, or in more serious situations, it may be because of anxiety. It could simply be to get your attention, too.

Regardless of the reason behind the behavior, there are some ways you can curtail their enthusiasm and keep the pooch pecks to a minimum.

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The 9 Steps to Stop Your Dog from Licking You Are:

One of the easiest ways to get your pooch to lay off with the licking is to simply ignore it. Unless you are getting kisses when you first walk through the door, your pup may be trying to get your attention. If you ignore the request, they will eventually stop. Once they do, make sure you show them praise. Letting them know a single lick will suffice along with some patient waiting will earn them your praise, they are likely to stick with the plan.

Some canines are a bit slower on the uptake, so they might not take your cue when you ignore them. On the other hand, they may not care that you are ignoring them and take it as a sign to keep going. If that is the case, you may have to take things one step further and give them a solid “NO”. Don’t forget to follow it up with a treat or some praise when they do a good job!

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If you find your pooch is in the last category, and ignoring them doesn’t work, it could mean they are licking you because you taste good. If they stop when you say no, but go at it as soon as they have the chance, chances are good your flavor is too tempting to pass up. This is especially true if you find your pup giving extra kisses right after the gym. Dogs typically like the taste of sweat (gross, we know), so they opt to have a lick-a-thon as soon as you get home from working out.

If you are not a gym person, but still feel like your pup likes the taste of your skin, it could be due to your lotion or soap. Changing it up could help. Try a different smell or ingredient list. It may get them to leave you be. This is also very true if you use a lot of all-natural and holistic products as they are more likely to smell like appetizing food.

To continue from the last step, you can also try using lotions or soaps that have citrus ingredients or smells. Dogs are not fond of anything bitter, and they will typically leave it alone. In a more desperate attempt to get your pooch to stop licking you, you can also try bitter sprays. These products are designed to keep your pet from chewing on furniture and other items, but they are often all-natural and harmless to your skin. If you notice your dog goes after one location, you can try spraying some bitter spray on your skin in that area.

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Another reason your pet may be licking you without stopping is that you have a cut or wound. They instinctively lick wounds to heal them, and because they love you, they want to heal any injury they perceive you have. Covering your cuts and wounds with a bandage will not only keep them from licking the area but give the illusion that it is healed. Keep in mind, although dog saliva has some healing properties, it can do more harm than good. There is just as much bacteria as healing properties in their mouth, and licking it can cause the wound to reopen.

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Another reason behind the excess licking could be the need for something to do with their mouth. Dogs pretty much use their mouth in all their activities. From eating to playtime to affection. Giving them a chew toy, a bone, or even something to eat can curb their need to lick. If you find this to be the case, find them a sustainable chew toy that will last. Also, try providing them with some other games or puzzles. Too much licking action can also be an indication that mental stimulation is lacking.

Mental stimulation may not be the only thing your canine is lacking. Constant licking can also mean boredom and pent-up energy. Bringing your pet outside for some exercise is a great way to tire them out and relieve the build-up energy. Even if you already bring your dog out for a daily walk, they may need some additional playtime. You can add another walk to the daily routine, or add some outdoor fun like fetch or tug of war.

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We bet you are wondering what DAP is, right? It is Dog-Appeasing Pheromones. Unfortunately, your dog may be licking you too much because of anxiety or stress. If that is the case, you need to get to the root of the problem. It could be they need more exercise, or in more extreme cases, it could be separation anxiety that has them licking constantly to comfort themselves. If you find the latter is the issue, using a DAP can help calm them down and ease their kisses. With that being said, you should always consult your vet before using any type of calming spray or treats. They can also help you get to the root of the issue. For example, your pet may be having some health issues that are causing their anxiety.

When to Be Concerned About Dog Licking

If you have tried all the above and the licking persists, you should bring your pooch to see a professional right away. As mentioned, anxiety can be the cause of the issue along with OCD. Consulting a vet can help you elevate their worries while also working on a way to find and fix the baseline problem. Unfortunately, some other issues could be at play, as well.

Although it is rare, your dog may be suffering from gastric reflux, hip and joint issues, ear or nose problems, and other ailments. They may also be suffering from allergies, and they are trying to get your attention by doing what they would normally do if they could “lick” an allergy.

Either way, if the above has made no difference is your pet’s behavior, make sure you seek assistance to ensure that your pal is not in pain or suffering in any other way.

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Conclusion: Stopping Dogs From Licking You

Over the top licking does not have to be something you tolerate with your pet. Following these simple steps can have your pup giving single kisses, or licks on command, in no time. As is with most things with your dog, consistency, repetition, and positive reinforcement are key. You may have to try several of these steps before you hit on the right one, but rewarding them for doing a good job is always a win-win.

We hope these steps have helped you stay a bit cleaner and dryer, and created a happier dog to pet-parents relationship!

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How to stop dog licking
Learn how to stop a dog from licking you. Photo: Mike Baird

People have a range of opinions on being licked by a dog.

I have seen someone bend down and pucker her lips for her dog to lick or “kiss” her, and I’ve also seen firm discipline given to the family pet for licking a dribble of food off someone’s hand.

No matter how you view licking by a dog, this behavior is extremely common, yet a nuisance to some people. (For the record, licking comes naturally to dogs, for perfectly good reasons.)

A behavior becomes a behavior problem only if it’s bothersome to you. For example, most dog owners see jumping to be problem that must be curbed.

However, because I train service dogs, from my perspective jumping can become very helpful if the dog needs to retrieve an item. So for my dogs, it’s not typically seen as a behavior problem.

The same logic can be used if the dog is constantly licking you. If it’s not an annoyance or something you want to stop, you certainly don’t need to stop the behavior.

When to Be Concerned About a Dog Licking You

The only time you should stop constant licking is if the dog is licking himself incessantly, using licking as a fear reaction, or licking as an obsessive compulsive behavior.

This part is very important: Before training your dog not to lick, you should work with a veterinarian and/or a behaviorist to determine the underlying cause of the licking—because in some cases, it can be a symptom of a larger problem.

Once you determine that the licking is not connected to a health concern, or some larger problem, you can move on to the next step.

How to stop dog licking
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How to Stop a Dog From Licking You — My Top 2 Tips

1. Stop Promoting the Behavior

When training your dog not to lick you, understand that this behavior is typically attention-seeking. So if you give your dog any type of attention because of the licking, whether it’s positive or negative, you are unintentionally rewarding the behavior.

The best way to eliminate the licking, then, is to eliminate the attention you give your dog when he licks.

2. Change Your Body Language

Other than removing your attention, a change in body language will help you make your point:

  • When your dog starts to lick you, say, “Nope!” and withdraw your attention while moving away.
  • It may help to put a little bitter apple spray or lemon on your skin to make the licking less desirable.
  • Make sure your eyes and face are dramatically averted from the dog.
  • When you get up and move away, your dog may follow you and try licking you again. If this occurs, just repeat the training process.

Because your dog has been rewarded in the past for this behavior, you may have to evade the licking and repeat this process many times before your dog gets the point.

What if My Dog Just Doesn’t Get It?

If your dog doesn’t seem to understand what you are doing, it may help to say, “Nope!” the second your dog begins to lick and then dramatically storm off.

You should leave the dog in the room he is in and slam the door behind you. Leave the dog alone for about 20 seconds and repeat the process and see if he tries to lick you again.

The key to training a dog is consistency — and in this case, it’s especially important because your pet was probably unintentionally rewarded in the past for licking.

Create Positive Attention With Another Task

Other than showing your dog that being licked is not what you want, it may help to teach your pet another behavior that allows him to get your attention that doesn’t end in you being slobbered.

For example, teach your dog to shake, sit up, lie down or roll over to get your attention. In this way, your dog can still get your attention without licking you.

To complete this training, you need to outmatch your dog’s persistency when it comes to incessant licking. To be successful, you must be consistent in not allowing your dog to lick you. Get creative and try different things.

The behaviorist in the video below offers more tips on how to stop a dog from licking you: